I certainly understand that!
When I started playing (back in the '70s), we had only a few choices, so choosing was much simpler.
Once a choice was made, we lived with it and learned to make it work.
Today, there are so many options, it's like picking the best potato chip from a bag of chips.
There are many that could be 'the one' but also many that could not work as well.
What I do, and what I'd recommend trying, is listen to people's suggestions, then try and find some YouTube videos to listen to and narrow it down.
Once you have made a choice, try to stop worrying/wondering if there is something better that you've missed, and focus on making it work. Avoid analysis paralysis!
Remind yourself that lots of great music was made with equipment that the musician simply made work for them because it was all that they could afford, or it was all that was available in that era.
Also, if you buy used, you can flip it for a minimal or no loss.
Best wishes for you finding what works for you!